..........East End Eye
....Tower Hamlets
Your issues - your voices
spacer
Your Issues
_______________________

PARENTS
of
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgender
STUDENTS

 

Parents
©Amnesty International 2007

We have been brought up in a society with a low level of understanding of homosexuality (whether because of society in general or perhaps of our religious upbringing).


If you are a parent that has just found out your son or daughter is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender and are now feeling shocked, unsure, isolated then these sites will be invaluable to you.

 

“Discovering a child is gay can be overwhelming and for many parents the initial shock can be devastating.
Feelings of horror, disappointment and disbelief are all common.
Some parents even feel bereaved, as if they have lost their child altogether.
Many parents just can't come to terms with the news of their child's sexuality – it's not what they had hoped for or dreamed of. It feels wrong, dirty and abnormal. Suddenly, the child they have always loved and cherished seems like a stranger.
Feelings of isolation, resentment and helplessness are common at this time and for most, the concept of having a gay child is so alien, they feel confused, angry, embarrassed and ashamed. Many parents find themselves worrying about what their neighbours, family and friends will think and because of these concerns, they feel alone, as if they have nobody to turn to.”
– From PARENTS OF GAY CHILDREN by Nigel Cooper


Useful Webpages to support Parents of LGBTs
click the logos and links for more info
 

NATURE vs NURTURE: Is sexual orientation determined at birth?
This site presents in a simple, nonpartisan pro-con format, responses to this core question. They have divided questions about the topic into the issues and sub-issues. All individuals and organizations quoted on our site are ranked based upon our unique credibility scale.

     
FFLAG logo
Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays is a continually growing national voluntary organisation and registered charity dedicated to supporting parents and their gay, lesbian and bisexual sons and daughters.
 
Supportline Logo
Support Line provides a confidential telephone helpline offering emotional support to any individual on any issue. The Helpline is primarily a preventative service and aims to support people before they reach the point of crisis. It offers a listing of agencies which provide information and support.

 

Bullying online
Bully Online helps thousands of pupils and their parents deal with school bullying every year. Finding out that your child is being bullied is a stressful and distressing experience. For advice click here

 

Gya and Lesbian Humanist

Gay and Lesbian Humanist Association, GALHA, provides a voice for the many non-religious in the lesbian and gay community in the United Kingdom and elsewhere and promotes a rational humanist approach to homosexuality and to lesbian, gay and bisexual rights as human rights.

 

Community and Religion may not accept homosexuality
but a father's love does

Naz Project logo
NAZ Project, Black and Minority Ethnic families working together to promote acceptance, understanding and tolerance.

 
RELATED ARTICLES
Stop bullying leaflet
Click above to download PDF
Interview with a Muslim Scholar
Homosexuality is a frightful taboo in the Muslim community. As soon as you utter the word, heads start shaking and astaghfirullahs are muttered in disbelief. Is this the right response? Yasin Yunus, of MuslimYouth.net has been speaking to a prominent Muslim scholar.
 
HImat logoA support group for South Asian Gay Men, has produced a leaflet for parents. It explores questions and Myths about homosexuality.
 

Gay Family Support Logo

A useful article from an Australian site helping parents and family members cope with their loved ones sexuality.

 

What do you think of these pages email us now


Absolute Relaxation logoCreated by Absolute Relaxation  Ltd for Hec logo Humanities Education Centre
 
Comments(0):
Add your comment
 
Copyright 2007 Humanities Education Centre London Borough of Tower Hamlets
 
Humanities Education Centre Logo Tower Hamlets